What is Sex Coaching? Do you have sex with your clients?
Thanks for asking! I’m a big fan of direct communication and I use it all of my relationships so I welcome awkward questions. No, I don’t have sex with my clients. Our coaching sessions will be a space where we create a real relationship for therapeutic purposes. That means I will show up as myself and we get to know each other. I may use tools like sensual touch and cuddling for therapeutic purposes and I will be sharing my honest reactions and feelings to our interactions to give feedback.
Our coaching relationship is used to help you create the kind of relationships you want in the real world. While there is no nudity or genital contact, there will be excitement, playfulness, eroticism, and romance. There will also be awkwardness, vulnerability, and nervousness. Just like any other relationship.
What is the Somatica Method?
“Rooted in emotional and erotic connection, the Somatica Method combines talk-based coaching with experiential practices to help coaches and clients expand their skills and beliefs around intimacy. This process is the key to changing your existing habits, uncovering your true self, and unlocking a more fulfilling sex life and deeper relationships.
It takes more than traditional talk-based therapy to unlearn the sexual or relational patterns we’ve picked up throughout our lives. To incite lasting change, you have to identify and shift habitual behaviors. The Somatica Method facilitates this through an experiential, embodied process, which is more effective than simply using cognitive learning techniques.” - From the Somatica Institute Website